Shhh! Don’t tell. My very first post. I find myself spiraling back and upward, like
a DNA molecule, to the myriad of themes emerging out of my twilight
zone.
(photo by phys.org)
The spirals
are so numerous I think I’ll start a “Spiraling Back” series. (Sorry, Just like Eve readers,
this whirlwind is still too big for the creativity of fiction, but I will
“spiral back” to it when the winds slow down; if you’d like to hunt down a
publisher for me, then perhaps I could return sooner . . . ? 🤔) I’ll
begin with my very first post and all three of its images: the fast-moving “freight
train” of information, my “eyes of paradox” (one near-sighted, one far-sighted),
and the movement toward whispering, careful speech.
Image 1: The
fast-moving freight train
Shhh! Don’t tell explained
this fast-moving train like a college lecturer speaking so fast you, a student,
can’t keep up to take notes. You had
agreed to take notes for some absent classmates, but you gave up, told them the
lecture was too fast, and they were on their own.
I’m now
trying to keep up with another freight train speeding along at record speeds. Nothing adds up, but information – some useful
and some really off and very distracting – is blowing in like hurricane. With all this debris of information flying
everywhere, which do we grab hold of, and which do we let go? Friends, the answers are not at all
obvious.
Too many think
they know which nuggets of information to trust and which to distrust, but they
might be making those decisions based on either a “False Authority” fallacy or
an “Ad Hominem” fallacy. These logical
fallacies are opposites, so let me explain them:
A False Authority
fallacy is the belief that a statement must be true just because Reliable
Person said it. Perhaps Reliable Person is
an authority, but just because Reliable Person said it does not necessarily
make it true. Reliable Person has to
provide strong, accurate, reliable evidence for his or her statement in order
for it to be trustworthy. Therefore, a
False Authority fallacy does not necessarily mean the speaker is not an
authority; instead it means the statement cannot be trusted just because
the speaker said it. Genuine evidence is
necessary.
The classic False Authority is truly false: "Celebrity says solar flares are harmless." However, a subtle type is a Non-sequitur (it does not necessarily follow) type of False Authority: “NASA says solar flares are harmless.” NASA, of course, is a genuine authority for
such a statement. Without evidence, however, its logic is incomplete. A good listener should ask why NASA says that
and what evidence NASA has for such a statement. (BTW, NASA hasn’t said this; I made it up for
the purpose of the analogy, and I purposely chose a respected national agency who I myself trust.)
An Ad
Hominem fallacy is the opposite: it believes a statement must be false
because Unreliable Person said it. Maybe
Unreliable Person is reliable, and has genuine evidence for X, but is getting
demonized 😅 for something she stated (perhaps in jest) about Y. Are we not to
listen to her evidence on X because something from unrelated Y, taken out of
context, condemns her?
Or, perhaps Unreliable
Person really is unreliable. Does
that mean that everything that person says is false? What if Unreliable Person brings forth
reliable evidence? Shouldn’t we take a
look at that evidence?
Think about these two
questions also:
1. Has
Person, who is being presented to you (or you think is) either Reliable or Unreliable,
provided evidence? Has Person provided it accurately, based on your own fact-checking
through the original data or the original source?
2. Are
you seeing the full evidence in full context of Person, who is being presented
to you (or you think is) either Reliable or Unreliable?
Perhaps Person is Reliable, but is being presented as Unreliable, and
Person’s strongest evidence has been eliminated from what you’re seeing. Have you checked the original source?
Image 2: Eyes
of Paradox
As noted in “Shhh! Don’t tell,” I have anisometropia, or what
I call “eyes of paradox,” a slightly near-sighted left eye and a fairly
pronounced far-sighted right eye. In
certain ways, like trying to read anything from the Internet on my cell phone,
or trying to hit an overhead in tennis, my condition is a nuisance. No set of eye-glasses can give me perfect
vision, so I do the best I can, while taking advantage of its benefits, like
being able to see road signs far in advance.
“There it is, coming up, next Exit, you’ll need to stay in the
right-most lane of the fork,” I tell my husband when we’re on a busy
freeway. Astonished, he exclaims, “You can read that?!”
Although they’re usually a nuisance, I’m proud of my eyes
of paradox. My life has been about paradox, starting in
childhood. I often imagine my angels are upstairs
laughing, playing a joke on me, as I think they did with my eyes. She’ll be all about paradox; she’ll see
nothing but paradox, so let’s give her eyes of paradox! That my more pronounced eye is far-sighted
is also not lost on me. As I watch the
world, life, everything, I see things much more in far-sighted vision than
near-sighted. Right now, I’m seeing
everything in paradox, and I’m seeing more of it with the far-sighted eye.
Let’s consider Highly Unreliable Person, a person I do
not trust at all. If I had
not already been investigating X through credible sources, I might respond to what
Highly Unreliable Person is saying like everyone else: Highly Unreliable Person
thinks X; therefore, X must be false. But
what if X is true? It’s a paradox. I
want to think Highly Unreliable Person can never be trusted. In our whirlwind, nothing is that simple.
Paradox accepts that there is no one size fits all. Maybe a particular treatment will work well
for you; maybe it won’t. Each treatment
comes with effects, some of which are more risky for some than others because our
bodies are all different. This should be
a decision between each patient with his or her own doctor.
Likewise, perhaps a particular preventative measure will help
you because you have a weak immune system and could be assisted by it. Perhaps that same measure could set back another person
who has spent years building up his own natural immunity. For that person, the same preventative measure
that helps you is like the boulder that he, Prometheus, has to roll back up a mountain.
Here’s another paradox: the stay-at-home order that fits
my own zen leanings, but jeopardizes the needs of those on my heart, the youth. I’ve just posted It Still
Takes a Village
on the youth, so I won’t repeat that here; I’ll just say that what is trying
for the youth -- to slow down and remain in place -- is actually refreshing to me. These are just a couple of paradoxes, but in
our whirlwind, the paradoxes are legion.
Image 3: Shhh! Careful speech
Through this pandemic, my family has chosen to do “Family
Movie Nights,” rotating each of us to choose a film and a couple of nights ago,
at my request, we watched Karate Kid 2, my favorite of these because in
this part, one of my all-time favorite of film characters is the star: Mr.
Miagi. This little man doesn’t look
tough, he doesn’t say much, and he’s quirky – he tries to catch flies with
chopsticks! But no strong man, nor crowd
of them, armed or not, can defeat this guy.
And even if his phrasing is as quirky as his habits, when he speaks,
you’d be wise to listen.
After a period of silence, a moment
tends to arise when one is released to speak.
Another spiral up into the next rung for me on this theme comes from
2013. I had been advocating for my
students to “rise into voices of power for the sake of good,” and at the start
of 2013, I began praying the same for myself. In early April, I faced quite a challenge for an instructor at the start of a new quarter: I lost my voice for two weeks. The
Spirit whispered, I will give you a voice of power, but I first have to take away
your voice. (If you glance at my Blog Archive and the posts per year, you’ll also see when
my blog voice dropped off for a few years.)
A year ago, the Spirit surprised me with another whisper:
I’m positioning you to be that voice, so I’ve permitted a distraction to you for a
test. Will you be distracted, or will
you be a voice of power? A year
later, I’d say the answer has been both.
Thankfully, not only I, but those relevant, following the divine forces,
have shown restraint, opening the door for me to emerge into this voice,
beginning with my successful advocacy on behalf of Oregon college students. For now, the whispers repeat the counsel to
emulate Mr. Miagi: be humble, simple, silent, restrained, and be ready when the
moment arrives to move or speak.
(8/12 update: I hope to have the chance to be silent for quite some time now. A voice is very difficult.)

(photo by portcitywire.com)
Should we
always listen to Reliable Person? Should
we never listen to Unreliable Person? Oh,
what a whirlwind we’re in! To properly
discern, we need to examine the evidence for ourselves through our Inner
Authority. To trust our Inner Authority, we need to free
ourselves from fear, anxiety, anger, and lower nature desires. Once we do, our
Inner Authority is remarkably reliable.
Here’s a doctor who studies,
examines, questions, tests, and listens to her Inner Authority, and suggests we
do the same. As a triple board certified
Internal Medicine physician, she fits “Reliable Person.” But even she encourages us not to take her
word for it, nor the word of the many speaking another narrative, but to examine
the evidence for ourselves through our Inner Authority.
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